What rules are in place for men?

In the 24th flash it also talks about how people react in Asian Islamic countries as against the European countries hence the need for more restrictions. I understand it is so however I am quite surprised how geography followed by socio economic backgrounds can have an affect on one’s faith.

If we always act as conscience guides us – is that the way of the absolute certainty? Is that the way how prophet could become the model of creation? Can you please elaborate how vizdan is the juncture of the unseen and the visible world? Can we discuss a example of the eyes of reason becoming blind, but conscience being always awake?

A women can satisfied with one man(even if she is not would be more duty bound) – but a man is not easily satisfied with one women – he also has a greater sexual drive than women -in desperation he may have affairs – so Islam by allowing 4 wives saves the man from committing sin. ( this is wholly my view – I may be wrong ) – he will be so tired of his wives that wont have the energy to look any further.

Also the way nature has created women is that she cannot bear children after certain age – whereas for men it goes on for longer – in a way, that drive is given in men so that they can have more children who can proclaim the name of Allah –

Islam has more restrictions on women to protect the women – because ultimately it is women who suffers.

Islam also I believe asks men not to look at women – to lower their graze earns them good deeds – what I am trying to say is that there are rules for men too.

” if you need to come to God be like child” meaning having a sincere heart with no disguise absolute humbleness.

Just as much as reading reflection and contemplation are also important in preserving purity of intention.

Yearn for the one that is Baki!

I feel that a lot is required by women in Islam than men. Also all the distractions and attractions are talked about with men as the centre point. As a women I can say that we get distracted too and would require loyalty and trust worthiness from men too. If you see below extract from 24 th flash and please explain more on the gist of the words.

” Women are not like that, they cannot restrict their husbands’ behaviour to the same extent. Women’s most basic characteristics are loyalty and trustworthiness, since being the director of all the matters to do with the home, the woman is charged with protecting and preserving her husband’s property and possessions, and his children. Carelessness in dress and morality destroys that loyalty, and her husband loses confidence in her and makes her suffer pangs of conscience. In fact, if the two qualities of courage and generosity, which are desirable in men, are found in women, it damages this loyalty and confidence and so are undesirable for women and are considered to be bad qualities. But since the husband’s duty is not loyalty and stewardship, but protection, kindness, and respect, he cannot be restricted and refined, and may marry other women as well”